How do I know you're legit?

Fair enough. Why should you trust a random girl on the internet claiming she can improve your dating life?

That's exactly why I offer all new clients a free intro call, no pressure. You can hear me, see me, ask me whatever you want, and decide whether I'm someone you'd actually feel comfortable taking advice from.

It also means I'm not just some faceless website promising you "10x more matches" or whatever. I can't guarantee that. But I can get a sense of what you're looking for, you can get a sense of me, and we can both figure out whether this is a good fit.

It should feel like getting advice from a female friend who is genuinely on your side, but honest enough to tell you when your profile is giving absolutely nothing.

Who is this for?

This is for men around 20 to 35 who are dating women and want help making their profile more appealing, more readable, and more reflective of who they actually are.

You might be a good fit if:

  • You feel like you're genuinely a catch in real life, but the apps are making you question your entire existence.
  • You're not getting many matches, or not with the kind of women you're actually interested in.
  • Your engagement used to be fine, but now it's fallen off a cliff and you have no idea what changed.
  • You cannot be bothered putting that much effort into your profile. Fair.
  • You don't really know what women are looking for online, because dating apps are weird and the rules are not always obvious.
  • You want honest female feedback without it feeling clinical, cringe or mean.

Who isn't this for?

This is not for anyone deeply involved in manosphere, redpill or incel culture. I don't feel comfortable offering services to people who engage with that kind of rhetoric, and honestly, I don't think I'm the right person to help if that's the lens you're seeing dating through.

This also isn't for men looking for pickup artist tricks, manipulation tactics, or some weird formula for "getting women." That's not what this is.

Better In Person is for men who genuinely like women, want to date with more confidence, and are open to feedback. I'm happy to be honest, even brutally honest where needed, but the foundation has to be respectful.

Is this a private service?

It should go without saying, but this service is completely private. Any photos, profile screenshots, personal details or identifying information you share with me will stay between us, and will never be posted, shared or used outside our conversations.

still not sure?
that's what the free chat is for.

No commitment. Just a conversation to see if it's a good fit.

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